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When the World Breaks Your Heart: How to Stay Grounded in Hope When Everything Feels Wrong

  • Writer: Scott Dean
    Scott Dean
  • Jun 23
  • 2 min read

Updated: Jul 7


There are moments when the pain of the world becomes unbearable.

Children being ripped from their parents. Communities destroyed by greed. Corruption that masquerades as leadership. Atrocities that make you question whether humanity is even capable of goodness. These aren’t just headlines...they hit the nervous system like a storm. If you’re someone who feels deeply, it can feel like your very soul is under siege.

As a trauma-informed guide and empath, I know what it’s like to carry both heartbreak and helplessness. Lately, I've been sitting with my own intergenerational “lack” wounds—old echoes of powerlessness that resurface when the world feels out of control. I thought I had shifted much of this, and yet, in the face of recent injustices, I found myself feeling small again. Enraged. Confused. Disoriented. Abandoned by God. Abandoned by humanity.

And yet—somewhere deeper—I still believe that everything is unfolding for the greater good.

So how do we hold both?


The Sacred Rage of the Empath


If you’re highly sensitive, you’ve probably been told your empathy is a weakness. But let me be clear: your heartbreak is not a flaw. It’s a signal that your heart is working. That your soul is still intact.

Feeling this much doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re alive and awake in a world that has gone numb.

Your rage? It’s holy. It says: “This is not okay.”Your grief? It’s sacred. It says: “I know this could be different.”

This isn’t about fixing it all. It’s about letting your feelings guide you toward what you can do. And then doing just that.


Remembering Your Place in the Tapestry


When I’m overwhelmed by the scale of suffering, I come back to this truth:

“I am not powerless. I am a thread in the great weave. I don’t have to carry the whole tapestry—just my strand.”

That means I vote.

I donate when I can.

I write. I guide. I cry.

I hold space for others to heal and remember their own power.

And I let that be enough.

Because collective healing doesn’t happen in one act of heroism. It happens in thousands of small sacred strands...woven with care, with courage, with trembling hands that still choose love.


Let This Be Your Reminder


If you’re feeling overwhelmed, angry, or lost in the face of what’s happening in the world:

  • You’re not alone.

  • You’re not doing it wrong.

  • And you are not powerless.

Let your heartbreak become movement.

Let your rage become fuel.

Let your hope be the quiet rebellion that says,“I still believe in us.”

And when it’s too heavy to hold, return to your strand.

It’s more than enough.

 
 
 

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